• @[email protected]
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    12 hours ago

    People have evolved stereotyping and assuming things cause it was beneficial from the evolutionary perspective.

  • NickwithaC
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    You forgot “cis allies making fun on cis transphobes” which I calculate to be a larger slice of the pie than all the others combined.

  • Queen HawlSera
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    The ONE time I heard this, I said it myself at the Gamestop where I’m a regular as a joke.

    I was asked Cash or Credit, and I in a faux-outraged voice just asked “Did you just assume my tender?”

    Then me and the cashier laughed.

  • @finitebanjo
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    Actually, trans is like 0.1% of the total population, so that sliver of trans people who say that should much tinier.

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        “Foreword: This article uses “trans” as an umbrella term, inclusive of all nonbinary and binary trans and nonbinary genders.”

        Yeah that is definitely argument worthy. Trans is short for transitioning/transitioned.

          • @finitebanjo
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            Wikipedia isn’t a source, the sources are found at the bottom of the wikipedia page. The “transition” can be more than just the surgery, but not every nonbinary is trans automatically. Some people are just what they are, and have always been, without ever trying to change what they are.

            • @[email protected]
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              Wikipedia isn’t a source, the sources are found at the bottom of the wikipedia page.

              I was just linking a term not everyone might know, to to be nice

  • Björn Tantau
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    Yeah, the only time I actually heard that phrase in real life was at a transsexual gaming night, followed by a burst of laughter.

      • @[email protected]
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        169 hours ago

        Did you just assume Gaming Night’s transness? Transsexual is a thing, and it’s distinct from transgender.

        • @[email protected]
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          56 hours ago

          It’s not really that distinct, no. Not unless you’re transmed and believe pre and post op trans people need to divided from each other.

          Youre free to use whatever terms you’d like to use for yourself, but transsexual was how people referred to all transgender people until the term transgender took off in the late 90s.

        • @Droggelbecher
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          Can you explain what it means to me? I’m nb and I’ve always disliked it because it tends to confuse people, making them think being trans is a sexuality.

        • Smorty [she/her]
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          oh, then i am very sorri. i as genuinely not aware and assumed that it was an old-timey word. i apologize.

            • Lemminary
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              It implies a sex change op which is quite invasive of people’s privacy. It’s also inaccurate for a lot of trans folks who may only change their gender expression and avoid the operation altogether, hence the adoption of transgender that has the right emphasis.

            • @Dragonborn3810
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              Not op, but I was taught by one of my trans friends it was an old term and not very correct nowadays as it inferred being trans was something sexual and not just yknow, bring trans ig

  • @BallShapedMan
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    I don’t even make the chart? CIS father of a trans kid trying to make the trans kid laugh when they try to get my attention at the store by saying “Dad!”

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      Yeah I dont think I’ve heard of anyone saying this to make fun of trans people.

      It’s not quite like the attack helicopter “joke” although that follows the same ratio of conservatives/making fun of conservatives.

        • @[email protected]
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          24 hours ago

          It’s not funny so you might have missed it, but people like to say they “identify as an attack helicopter”. Conservatives, so “people” is accurate but a little bit of a stretch.

          • @BallShapedMan
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            Oh right, yeah I’ve heard that but didn’t think of it. It’s not funny, just assholes being assholes.

      • @BallShapedMan
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        This! This is the right response! Thank you! 🤣

        • @Droggelbecher
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          When I was a fresh teacher, a teenager asked ‘can I go to the bathroom?’ and I was excited to finally drop the classic ‘idk if you CAN, but you MAY’. And they laughed. I wanted a groan. Very disappointed.

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    🟩 me when accosted by an irate middle aged woman while exiting the pointlessly gendered single seat bathroom (I am a fully housebroken husband)

    ETA: by housebroken I mean i sit when i pee and clean up anything left on the bowl or seat that flushing doesn’t handle. It’s just good manners

    • @[email protected]
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      I heard of a guy who dug his own outhouse because his dom wife started calling the bathroom in the house a women’s restroom and buying a sign and even put a new lock in, he was only allowed to use it if he put on a skirt and asked permission in a high voice.