• Ogmios
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    2149 months ago

    To him, the pictures he takes of you look like those top two.

    • @Holyhandgrenade
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      1039 months ago

      For real, most of the pictures I have of my girlfriend are gorgeous, but she thinks they’re hideous. I wish I could accurately convey to her how beautiful I think she is.

      • @[email protected]
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        759 months ago

        Seriously, my wife’s biggest critic is my wife.

        And anybody who bad talks my wife is getting a spanking

        Wait. Oh, nice.

        • AwkwardLookMonkeyPuppet
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          329 months ago

          When my wife starts criticizing herself I say “Stop! I don’t let anyone talk about my wife that way”

        • @afraid_of_zombies
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          19 months ago

          Mine as well. You look amazing stop saying that you don’t. Do it so often it is starting to make me feel bad.

        • This is fine🔥🐶☕🔥
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          309 months ago

          Oh you want to have candlelight dinners and walk along the canal in moonlight holding hands with a woman?

          That’s so gay.

          Real men fuck men.

            • @Shou
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              29 months ago

              Wasn’t it Athens?

              • @Olhonestjim
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                29 months ago

                Cur non utrumque?

                γιατί όχι και τα δύο?

  • Norgur
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    1659 months ago

    Well, seems like he wants to be with you, not with your Instagram profile

    • BlanketsWithSmallpox
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      349 months ago

      Seeing people’s perfectly curated family albums is always weird to me. Like, you’re not going to capture all the weird, funny, ugly, gross, and human moments either? What’s the point then? Lol.

  • Ech
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    1519 months ago

    And the boyfriend sees the pics on the bottom like the girlfriend sees the pics on the top.

    • @Brkdncr
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      149 months ago

      My fave photo of my SO is one she doesn’t like. It brings me so much joy and happiness when I see it.

    • @Ultraviolet
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      149 months ago

      There’s a psychological reason for that. You’re used to seeing yourself in the mirror, so a photo of yourself looks subtly wrong. Reverse a photo of yourself and you immediately look better, but only to you. It’s wrong to everyone else that way.

      • @UsernameIsTooLon
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        109 months ago

        Yup! Been telling people this for years. Similarly, you hate your own voice in recordings because you’re used to how there are bassy undertones that bounce in your head and get added on top of your voice. You can amplify your hearing of the bassier/muffled voice by just covering your ears and speaking.

        Which means the trick for making your voice sound better in recordings is to just give it a touch of low end.

      • Ech
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        29 months ago

        That’s definitely part of it! Additionally though, how we feel about someone or something has a significant affect on how we perceive it. Imperfections we may focus on with ourselves (everyone’s their own worst critic) or strangers will be lessened or completely overlooked when viewing things we care for.

        “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.”

    • @[email protected]
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      89 months ago

      If he’s anything like me, vice versa too

      Mirrors shatter into powder under my awful gaze

  • unalivejoy
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    819 months ago

    He only takes pictures of you at your most beautiful

  • @Ifera
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    449 months ago

    I need this, but gay

  • billwashere
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    309 months ago

    My wife would absolutely agree.

    • The Menemen!
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      209 months ago

      She has a boyfriend?

      (SORRY, my old reddit instincts were kicking in!)

  • @[email protected]
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    229 months ago

    You want some idealized version of him that doesn’t exsist in motion and conjured up by tricks and self deception.

    He wants you exactly as you are, flaws and all.

      • @[email protected]
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        109 months ago

        He’s capture a real moment, not something staged or manipulated to appear better than it is.

        • @Emerald
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          49 months ago

          Lots of photography is making something look better then it is. Lol

          • @[email protected]
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            29 months ago

            This is why those tiny Coke and Pepsi cans are so popular, since they make other things look huge in comparison.

  • @afraid_of_zombies
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    209 months ago

    I miss arethestraightsokay on reddit. Loved watching those aromantic antisocials get offended at other people’s happiness.

        • @[email protected]
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          29 months ago

          How so exactly? What exactly here would they be amused by? How do you anticipate they would react? Genuinely lost.

            • @[email protected]
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              I didn’t even know it was a subreddit until reading that post, despite having previously been a disgracefully active redditor for more than a decade.

    • @Sorgan71
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      49 months ago

      bro ive been trying to find that comic

      • @Landless2029
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        69 months ago

        I’ve seen it ages ago…

        scrolled down most of the way and noped out before the jump. Don’t need that shit at 1am before bed.