zerozaku

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Cake day: June 19th, 2023

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  • Totally agree on how I should get better with small talks. You have given some great tips, I will try to be more open to strangers and apply these. Thanks.

    Do you think I really have to go out of my way to engage with someone that I have found attractive? I think it would be way too clear that I’m forcing a conversation in order to make them my “acquaintances”. Doesn’t that weird people out?

    I was watching her only when she was in my line of sight and was totally depending on chances. But guess that turned out to be stalker-like fixation as people have pointed out here. Is approaching them awkwardly a better thing to do?




  • She would probably react negatively if she knew about somebody idolizing her like this because it sounds like obsession, and the grim truth is that obsessions tend to ignore a person’s agency and is disrespectful to them as a human being rather than an object of desire.

    Ouch. But yeah I can see some truth in that. Thanks for the heads up.

    Also what do I do instead, if I form a crush on them and not able to approach them?