Maybe you could walk away from a living being dying inside you and then you having to pass that dead corpse with zero trauma, but let grieving families grieve. A memorial service is a perfectly reasonable response to losing a child, even if they never lived outside you.
Memorials that stay up for a decade afterward? Yeah, that’s healthy.
Grieving is inevitable (which I acknowledged right at the start if you’d bothered to read), but there comes a point where it’s less “grieving” and more “spiralling into an inner hellscape of uncontrollable pain and sorrow that hurts you, your family, and anybody around you who cares for you”.
Maybe you could walk away from a living being dying inside you and then you having to pass that dead corpse with zero trauma, but let grieving families grieve. A memorial service is a perfectly reasonable response to losing a child, even if they never lived outside you.
Memorials that stay up for a decade afterward? Yeah, that’s healthy.
Grieving is inevitable (which I acknowledged right at the start if you’d bothered to read), but there comes a point where it’s less “grieving” and more “spiralling into an inner hellscape of uncontrollable pain and sorrow that hurts you, your family, and anybody around you who cares for you”.
Guess which this one is.
You said in your post funerals were going too far. That is what I take issue with.