• Binette
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    56 hours ago

    Helps with intrusive thoughts!

    …Until you have to sleep, that is.

  • @Matriks404
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    25 hours ago

    Eh, I’d rather go for a walk with my dog. At least he won’t be sad.

  • GHiLA
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    26 hours ago

    You can know everything about why something happened and still be sad about it.

  • ivanafterall ☑️
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    301 day ago

    With the right combination of substances, you can make yourself blackout entirely. Can’t feel sad if you’re not conscious.

    • Ignotum
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      211 day ago

      You don’t even need substances, if you just lie down for a while you’ll black out for like 8 hours

      Less reliable but way cheaper than chemical blackouts

  • @lectricleopard
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    471 day ago

    YouTube playing, scrolling lemmy, and playing cities skylines fixing traffic.

    I feel called out.

  • @TexasDrunk
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    341 day ago

    Hey, I have a rambling anecdote!

    I’ve always had problems with intrusive thoughts. A few years back I had a really hard breakup that I won’t go into the details of. For 6 months I had a TV on, my headphones on with a book running, and was doom scrolling every bit of social media I could when I wasn’t working. I started drinking the second I got off work and only stopped when it was time to sleep. Why? Because my intrusive thoughts got LOUD. I couldn’t function without something going on all the time.

    I went through more than a book a day on audible for those 6 months. One day I forgot to charge the speaker in my shower and I had a whole ass breakdown. There was no point in my life that was silent.

    Eventually I got better. It took time but I got there. Now I’m a drunk recreationally instead of because I need to be in order to function. I listen to books for pleasure instead of out of necessity. And much later I did the whole therapy thing and have tools to keep myself from going through that again.

  • Ignotum
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    161 day ago

    I’m out on a walk, listening to a podcast, and scrolling Lemmy…

    I’m still short 2 forms of distraction, but i’m running out of senses to overstimulate!

    • @weeeeum
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      515 hours ago

      Have a fidget spinner in your other hand, chew gum and start blowing bubbles, oh and wear a vibrating buttplug.

      • Ignotum
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        414 hours ago

        Oh i was already doing one of those actually

        • @weeeeum
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          15 hours ago

          I’m here to chew buttplugs and kick gum

          And I’m all out of buttplugs

    • @yrmp
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      418 hours ago

      Walk through a perfume/cologne shop and put a vibrating butt plug in and that ought to cover the rest.

      • Ignotum
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        114 hours ago

        Oh i was already doing one of those actually

  • @PunchingWood
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    411 day ago

    Definitely works.

    I tried TikTok once, it really felt like brianrot taking root within minutes.

  • @Katana314
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    151 day ago

    In all seriousness: Identify habits you do every day that aren’t productive nor bring you genuine enjoyment, and try to cut yourself off from them. You can give yourself time in every day to be more adventurous and make changes.

  • Adori
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    523 hours ago

    I’ve wanting to put more effort in using my systems. Im trying to do the pomodoro technique to pace myself and not burn myself out while enjoying my minecraft on my steamdeck. While going to drive to school and back i give myself more room to breathe and process by having some chill instrumental music.

    Trying to go 2 times a week on my bike to get that frustration out, and get out from home.

    I havent gone out with friends as much as of late but that rlly helped before to look forwards to the weekend.

  • @[email protected]
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    101 day ago

    I don’t know, I keep hearing this meme but it’s the opposite for me. I think about the incredible buffet of interesting things I listen to all the time. I wish I could think multiple things at once or that I didn’t have to pause whatever I’m listening to so I can write about it.

  • @JigglypuffSeenFromAbove
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    71 day ago

    also pls rember that wen u feel scare or frigten never forget ttimes wen u feeled happy

    wen day is dark alway rember happy day

  • @felixwhynot
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    101 day ago

    When I work I have at least two videos playing without sound as well as music. And somehow I do work

    • snooggums
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      71 day ago

      Imagine how much work you could do if you had 3 videos playing!