Please don’t think I’m here to complain about rizz or skibidi toilet etc. Thats all fine by me.

The term I dislike strongly is ‘eeeh’ before you make a statement disagreeing with someone. (This is over text only). Now maybe I’ve been pavloved bc it’s always used by someone disagreeing. But I’m happy with people disagreeing with me normally its just the ‘eeeh’ or ‘erm’ that annoys me.

So what’s a random term that annoys you?

PS. Saying “eeeh actually ‘eeh’ is a perfectly fine term” would be a ridiculously easy joke and I will judge you for making it. And I know atleast one person will. Especially bow that I’ve said all this.

  • @[email protected]
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    I cringe so hard at the twitterist carebear-hugbox way of smugly claiming the intellectual high ground and shaming somebody:

    “Be better.” or “Do better.”

    The sentiment isn’t terrible, but it’s prevalent use is obviously just dripping with arrogance and thrown out in the most petty ways. Ugh!

  • @[email protected]
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    “It is what it is”

    I get the sentiment behind it, it’s just usually so defeatist/dismissive of a situation to me.

    • @Delphia
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      I sometimes say “I could care less, but not by much”

    • @[email protected]
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      Thing is… this sort of makes sense if you say it with a hint of sarcasm. But curiously the only people that use this phrase are Americans. And we all know how much they understand sarcasm 🤣.

    • @weeeeum
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      39 hours ago

      This exactly! I always get so confused when people say that.

        • @weeeeum
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          27 hours ago

          In the example I gave it was pretty clear, but in other phrases it can get pretty confusing

  • @[email protected]
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    25 hours ago

    Queer. Not all gay men (the one group I can safely speak about) like to be associated with an ex-slur and its connotations.

  • Christian
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    Using the phrase “serious question” or “honest question” will make me immediately assume your question is the exact opposite of that. Probably I’m overreacting, but expecting that anyone might respect that declaration you’ve made about your own question, that gives me narcissist vibes.

  • Lad
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    “living my/your/their best life”

    Please gtfo

  • deadcatbounce
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    Starting every sentence with “So”. “So” being the way to indicate the beginning of a sentence.

  • @[email protected]
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    So many things. In written form, I hate when someone writes “Period.” after they make a point to mean “this can’t be argued” or whatever. My good bitch, I don’t think you understand how arguing works. 😆

    “Full stop” is a close second.

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    98 hours ago

    Not a term, but a lack thereof:

    People I have to regularly interact with for work have been excluding “to be”, especially with “needs”, and it’s infuriating.

    This issue needs escalated. That report needs fleshed out. Let me know if anything needs cleared up.

  • Dessalines
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    Someone could take all the answers here and create a copypasta equivalent of fingernails on a chalkboard.

  • @Ep1cFac3pa1m
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    Mama, momma, mommas…

    “Hey Facebook mommas, I’ve got a question about…”

    I don’t know why, but it annoys the shit out of me.

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      Similarly, not a fan of when teachers and parents talk about their “kiddos.”

      Feels like they’re needlessly using a more playful childish term to make themselves part of a separate “in group” who “gets it.”

      • @Ep1cFac3pa1m
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        I hadn’t thought about that one. I occasionally use the word kiddo, but only to say, “hey kiddo!” I never use it to talk about my kids, like “we took the kiddos to the park yesterday.”

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          Yeah, it’s specifically the not talking to a kid version that bothers me.

          I pick up a subtext of self-importance and I think that’s what I find irksome. A mom is a parent. A momma is a special parent who will do anything for their baby, you’d better watch out. A kid is a child. A kiddo is a specific child who has a close bond with their momma or teacher that you wouldn’t understand. That’s the vibe I get.

      • @Ep1cFac3pa1m
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        I don’t think it’s some latent psychological issue. I get along great with my mom, and I’ve never felt any resentment toward her. I’m also not bothered by words like mom, moms, mother, etc. I don’t even mind when my sons call my wife “mommy.” It’s just that one word, “momma,” that bugs me. I wish I had an explanation.

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    Especially in news headlines: slams, blasts, mind-blowing, hack (or lifehack)

    I’m sure there are others, but that’s all my brain can handle at the moment.

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      It’s always superlatives, even for the most mundane and boring things

      I really like your username btw… I now wanna cuddle a cassowary and/or you

      • @CuddlyCassowary
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        210 hours ago

        Aww, thanks! I tried to find a very uncuddly animal and show it some love. Their claws (talons?) are terrifying.

    • @[email protected]OP
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      Ah all the typical clickbait words. I hate them too. Lifehack in particular is a word I’m sick of now

  • @weeeeum
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    89 hours ago

    People using double negatives incorrectly. Like “I didn’t do nothing!”