• Vanth
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        331 month ago

        Has FB been cool since they got rid of signups limited by .edu email addresses?

        • @[email protected]
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          401 month ago

          That was basically the end. When it was only friends and the feed sorted by “new,”, it was super fun. When my aunts started joining it became much less fun.

          • @SlopppyEngineer
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            the feed sorted by “new,”

            Yeah, and it went from “let’s just add some stuff” to outright “we will force feed you this slop and you will like it” from there. It felt like you were a goose being prepped for Christmas’ foie gras.

        • @[email protected]
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          121 month ago

          That’s when it was cool to teens who didn’t have .edu emails addresses (but not long after).

        • @stoly
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          129 days ago

          You had a good year or two after that and then it went to shit.

    • @stoly
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      129 days ago

      Teens stopped using Facebook in 2015.

      • @kautau
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        131 month ago

        “In the beginning:”

        Facebook was a MySpace alternative for “academics” (college students / alums) instead of teens.

        LinkedIn was a MySpace alternative for “professionals” instead of teens.

        Forums were an evolution of BBSs that predated “social” media because it wasn’t you, it was an avatar, a fake persona you created rather than “first name,” “last name.”

        ICQ and Skype were purely chat platforms, competing in a completely different space.

        I have no idea what point this rant is trying to make but all the comparisons between services are way off base.

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          but all the comparisons between services are way off base.

          My experience in Russia. No, they are not off base. Just naturally there are different PoVs and for you it may be something entirely else. You can think about that before saying something is wrong.

          MySpace

          Say, I’m not sure many people even knew of that where I am.

          Forums were an evolution of BBSs that predated “social” media because it wasn’t you, it was an avatar, a fake persona you created rather than “first name,” “last name.”

          People using real names in the Web were the weird ones, but it was normal to meet IRL those you know via forums.

          I have no idea what point this rant is trying to make

          Your failure, not mine.

  • Maeve
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    Because Whatsapp is totally not owned by FB.

    • @lemmylommy
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      It’s not about why owns it. It’s about where young people can be without getting bothered by their parents and other old people.

      • @Lost_My_Mind
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        I’m 41…you telling me the kids today don’t think of me as the greatest person who ever existed??? Pssshhh that’s malarkey! I won’t hear of it! EVERYONE thinks I’m the greatest person who ever existed! My lexicon includes words like “malarkey” and “lexicon”! Kids think that’s cool right???

        • @[email protected]
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          301 month ago

          I’m 39 so I am slightly more rizz than you. I maintain my levels of brat by regularly updating my skibidi vocab.

        • @AA5B
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          31 month ago

          Clearly you young people are fine being on Lemmy with old people

      • @rottingleaf
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        11 month ago

        That’s about phone number requirement for signup. Not about platforms.

        OK. Life is life.

        I’ve just had a traumatic memory of one young person, a girl (with possibly undiagnosed ASPD), from 13 years ago.

        Feel nausea and want to throw up every time thinking about that kind of places, dynamics, emotions.

  • Dem Bosain
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    871 month ago

    Where there any teens on Twitter? Last I was there it was full of angry middle-age men.

    • psychOdelic
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      181 month ago

      before musk came it was pretty full, most of them have moved to threads

    • @[email protected]
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      Ah, the curse of algorithmic social network. It’s full of angry middle-aged men if you follow those / interact with them. There are / were big communities formed around various pop stars on Twitter and those are quite different demographics.

    • @Today
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      329 days ago

      The Internet- where men are men…

      • @[email protected]
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        329 days ago

        Men? Wait, yall aren’t dogs using the internet while the humans are away at work?

        Yall are dogs to right?

  • @[email protected]
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    501 month ago

    It’s pretty clear. Facebook is now full of crap created by artificial intelligence (and not only).

  • Vanth
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    471 month ago

    That is a weird way of describing it. Teens aren’t “abandoning” FB & X; they never signed up to begin with. And why would that? They are platforms built for and filled with millennials+.

  • cheer
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    311 month ago

    A decade ago is when teens stopped using Facebook, unless they’re counting Instagram in those metrics?

    • @AA5B
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      Look at the graph in the article: it’s the only newsworthy piece. Assuming the numbers are legit, the lines crossed about 6 years ago.

      Of course the x axis not having any labeled points there doesn’t fill me with confidence. Perhaps it’s just two points for each and they drew a straight line

  • UltraMagnus0001
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    Isn’t whatsapp another data mining app for Facebook?

    • @TheGrandNagus
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      Yes, although to nowhere near the same extent as Facebook and Instagram.

      The chats are E2EE using Signal’s encryption protocol, so very good.

      But they will certainly mine everything else they can get. They may not know what you’re saying, but they do know who you’re talking to, when you’re doing it, your contacts, your profile pic, how often you send images, etc. any web links with tracking info embedded in the URL will likely be tracked too, once you open them.

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        This still baffles me. What’s Facebook’s end game here? They are built on data collection and spying, but they own an app that is E2EE.

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          Honestly, I think they just saw that Whatsapp was becoming the standard chat app for basically all of the world outside of the US and China, and just didn’t want anybody else to have it.

          Additionally, metadata is better than no data, I guess.

          • sunzu2
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            Meta data is prolly more valuable at scale…

            Most of are really generic so any single normie data package has but so much value. Middling income with middle hobbies etc

            However, having data on 330 million pedons along with each ones connections, thats power.

        • @Loce
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          If you go only by the metadata, they know all your friends, their phone numbers, your location history, when do you chat, with whom, how often and how long. And I’m fairly sure they index conversation in some form.

          Just location history can paint a decent picture of what you do, where do you go, what do you like, which friends are nearby, etc… and all of that was implemented like 15+ years ago, imagine what they can do today with AI. It’s fair to say FB knows more about you then you do (FB, IG, Wapp…). And to be blunt, it could probably determine what ppls shit smells like, judging by all the pictures of a meal they post on IG.

        • @[email protected]
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          329 days ago

          The metadata. The message content is E2E, but the data about the content isn’t necessarily e2e.

          • yeehaw
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            229 days ago

            Good point. Figuring out who is talking to who is valuable info for them too.

            • sunzu2
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              Meta data is more valuable than whatever is being discussed most of the time

  • @[email protected]
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    221 month ago

    Ok, I feel old. The only reason facebook has any relevance to me is the market place. What’s the best alternative?

    • @[email protected]
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      201 month ago

      That’s just it, Facebook is kinda the default option, and almost everyone has an account there. It’s why so many clubs arrange everything through a Facebook page.

      • @[email protected]
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        21 month ago

        It might be that I’m looking at this from a US perspective. Craig’s list has been a bit rough when I’ve tried it. Scammy and shadier people. I hope you’ve had better experiences here than me.

        I found cash converters out of the UK. Is that correct? It seemed comparable to a pawn shop at first glance.

  • kratoz29
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    221 month ago

    Okay? But what does Whatsapp has anything to do with the other? DM?

    I don’t consider WhatsApp social media.

    • @egrets
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      WhatsApp has channels (public feeds centered around topics, a bit like microblogging), communities (groups about a subject, much like Facebook Groups), and updates (temporal video/photo statuses to share with your friends). You might only use it for DM, but it has much bigger aspirations.

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    My family has a signal group. I started it two years ago.

    Almost no one pays any attention to it, unless they accidentally open the app once a month, but they’re all still there and can be spoken to.

    I put a PSA out a month ago that I’ll no longer respond on Facebook Messenger or SMS after the turn of the year. Tough shit. There was some groaning but, if there’s no other way, either use Signal or invest in a Pigeon coop and get training.

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      There was some groaning but, if there’s no other way, either use Signal or invest in a Pigeon coop and get training.

      Any particular reason you are abandoning SMS? Any particular reason for the strict rule?

      • GHiLA
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        RCS ain’t universal. I only have it with some iPhone users and the rare Pixel.

        If it’s what’s for dinner, I don’t care. Musk can know I had some hamburger steak.

        If it’s the code to your tablet, mom, ask on Signal.

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          RCS is shit, with SMS at least my phone comes with a messenger and I can download one from F-Droid. With RCS only one proprietary app supports it and it functions weirdly on GrapheneOS. In its current state it’s practically a downgrade at this point and considering how bad SMS is that says a lot.

  • @AA5B
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    This is news? The article’s own graph puts this about 6 years ago

  • Obinice
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    111 month ago

    WhatsApp? The instant messenger boomers use on their phones?

    Damn, who saw that coming.

    • @[email protected]
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      261 month ago

      Most countries stopped using SMS ages ago. WhatsApp, Signal and Telegram are ubiquitous.

      • @[email protected]
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        41 month ago

        Weird that this is your association as using it would require an iPhone which most youth don’t have. My thought was Telegram, which is omnipresent at least around me, with Whatsapp often being kept just for the parents or older relatives.

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              No, it’s used by just about everyone. Generally the younger the person and the bigger their city, the more likely they are to gravitate towards Telegram rather than Whatsapp.

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                I know alot of people in my city and its one of the biggest in north america and they have never heard of it.

          • @[email protected]
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            I know, and it’s terrible that it’s so unavoidable. I managed to avoid Whatsapp, but without Telegram managing university life would be incredibly hard.

    • themeatbridge
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      271 month ago

      People go where their friends are. Their grandparents are on Facebook.

  • @scarabic
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    Gee I wish they had just left Facebook as a way to share photos and updates with friends and family, instead of turning it into a viral content clusterfuck to capture the youth audience. It didn’t even work.

      • @Asidonhopo
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        Craigslist eventually got rid of personals, give it a decade