• @[email protected]
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      7011 months ago

      It’s funny I’ve had interactions on dating sites that would be unspeakably vulgar in person but somehow come across as gallant in that context.

    • norbert
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      Yeah this might be a green flag. Person is being upfront about their needs, they’re trying to fuck. It’s fine if that’s not what you’re looking for but if you are, it’s fine (imo) to be completely upfront about it.

      • @[email protected]
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        Homeboy is tryna fuck and is communicating clearly and asking for interest/consent. Vulgar? Sure, but still a class act. I hope he got to hit it.

      • ShaunaTheDead
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        3011 months ago

        Yesss! Oh my god, just be up front about what you want! I hate when people lie about their intentions on dating sites.

    • @Zoboomafoo
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      Only boys have bussies, not trans women

        • @Shea
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          generally it means boi pussy but i like where your head is at

        • @veroxii
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          1911 months ago

          Always thought it was “back pussy”. Completely gender neutral.

        • Norah - She/They
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          711 months ago

          It’s short for boy pussy, but the term’s original usage was in the gay male community and referred to the anus. It has also been co-opted for use by the transmasculine community. Though, in my personal experience as a trans femme top, I’ve met boys that call their anus that, and use ‘front hole’, which is off limits. And I’ve met boys that call their vagina that.

          • @boatsnhos931
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            211 months ago

            You should do your dissertation on this topic

  • Jolteon
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    Hey, clear expectations were set from the very beginning.

  • @[email protected]
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    711 months ago

    Complete lack of imagination. Just want I want, a brainless meatsack on top of me for 5 minutes.

    Is this the tinder experience? Might be looking at trans friendly dating apps soon.

    • @Agent641
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      Well, give us more to work with, then! What exactly are you tryna get pounded?

      • @[email protected]
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        311 months ago

        First misstep… I generally do the pounding, friend :* just cuz I’m a girl doesnt mean I’m a bottom xD

        Unless you’re offering to do housework for me. In that case I suppose a number of things could benefit from a good pounding.

    • @[email protected]
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      911 months ago

      When 90% of the people you talk to are going to ignore or ghost you, you shouldn’t put much effort into trying to impress someone who is, for all intent and purposes, a photo with a name.

    • @[email protected]
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      411 months ago

      I had good luck with a site called Taimi. Not sure if it’s still around but it was much better for dating versus the hookup culture of Tinder. I met my partner there and we’ve been together for years.