• @tourist
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    1372 months ago

    some secrets are completely acceptable to take to the grave

    • Khrux
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      132 months ago

      I suspect this is a partner of some kind considering they have access to nudes?

  • Dharma Curious
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    1072 months ago

    Honestly? Someone telling me this would do absolute wonders for my self esteem, ngl

    • stebo
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      222 months ago

      isn’t that hellah weird to think about though

      • Dharma Curious
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        472 months ago

        I mean, kinda, yeah. But people masturbate. They’re not hurting anyone doing it. The idea that anyone had masturbated thinking of me would be a self esteem booster. That said, that’s a pipe dream. Ain’t nobody ever got off to all of this outside of an actual sexual encounter. Lmao

    • @[email protected]
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      222 months ago

      I mean, there have been times where I was recovering from a bad breakup, and a gay dude flirted with me a little…not the same gay dude every time.

      It was flattering, even though I’m not into guys.

      • PMFL
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        92 months ago

        Omg, what a true answer, it happened to me too. And more than once, if I were gay I wouldn’t even have to worry, I’ve always been very liked by gays, I don’t know why, but it’s true.

      • @Gabu
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        32 months ago

        TBH, and not with the intention of hurting your self-esteem, girl-pretty and gay-pretty seem to be quite different, in my experience.

    • @mossy_
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      142 months ago

      I had someone say they wanted me (as part of a conversation about preferences, not totally off topic) and it was honestly really flattering. I told em I was ace and we moved on. It was like seven years ago but I’ll cherish that memory forever…

      • @[email protected]
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        22 months ago

        My housemate-and-best-friend wants me a lot. I’m ace and aro. We have an understanding.

    • @BreadOven
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      52 months ago

      Just need a pic I guess. Haha /s.

    • @LemmyKnowsBest
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      72 months ago

      Jeez, he implanted a whole vertebra into your spine, with a simple text

  • @Etterra
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    -172 months ago

    Imagine having self esteem so low that you convince yourself (or actually believe) that the creepiest shit imaginable is romantic.

    Hell, I’ve lived with depression with suicidal ideation since I was like 7 but at least I’m not crazy.

    • volvoxvsmarla
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      312 months ago

      You… You can’t imagine anything creepier than someone jerking off to a picture of you? I’m not sure if I should admire your innocence or warn you about the world out there

      • @Etterra
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        -82 months ago

        Allow me to explain this little thing called “hyperbole.”

    • @Gabu
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      52 months ago

      Romantic? No. Creepy? Definitely not, unless they’re total strangers (or worse, family).

  • tygerprints
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    -482 months ago

    Oooohkaay this is all about as slimy and gross as human communications can get.