• 2ugly2live
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    311 minutes ago

    I know it’s probably fake, but I low key think this is the experience of most women, online or not. Men like to think women can just ring a bell and get dick and companionship, judging off of, like, the cream of the crop of women and their (apparent) track record. It’s not always that easy, especially if you aren’t attractive. A lot of men don’t fuck for personality.

    ~~Obligatory not all men, yes there are shallow women, and yes it is also hard for men to find partners, and yes they have their own struggles and pressures that make their struggle unique to them. ~~

  • @[email protected]
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    356 minutes ago

    The funny thing is that if this greentext linked this girl OnlyFans, she would gain tons of views just out of pity.

    Some of these would even stick around afterwards.

  • @[email protected]
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    243 minutes ago

    Ah, another classic case of the wild goonette lost in cyberspace which has yet to be found. In due time.

  • @[email protected]
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    4 hours ago

    Lil tiddy supermarket goth girl sounds cute tbh, or maybe I just have a type.

    Anyway, girls like this can be a real gem to find if you’re a gooner. Their small fan base means if you’re not a creep there’s a chance of genuine interaction. She’ll probably take request and if she likes you might even send you free content.

  • @shortrounddev
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    315 hours ago

    Some girls aren’t in it for the money or fame, they just like posting nudes

    • @ChexMax
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      185 hours ago

      Right, but aren’t those girls in it for the attention? The thrill? Sounds like she’s not getting any attention, either.

      • @[email protected]
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        There’s a difference between none and some.

        She gets some attention, not much, but some.

        We call it nothing at all, even if it’s not nothing. It’s obvious why we do it, it’s the absence of respect. But we are technically wrong.

        • @FauxLiving
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          People’s views are so skewed by social media numbers. If 10 people came up to you in one day and complemented you, it would probably be the best day of your life…

          It’s like people complaining that Lemmy groups only have, using this group as an example, 3.1k users/day and are therefore not worth participating in (these are Reddit arguments, but still).

          Somehow people have developed this intuition that unless you have literally millions of interactions then you’re practically invisible. If you were hanging out at a park with 3,100 people you wouldn’t say that it was a small group, but on the Internet this is seen as a tiny number of people, hardly worth mentioning.

      • @shortrounddev
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        116 minutes ago

        You’re saying that the only girls who have onlyfans are those who don’t truly have the stomach for it? In reality, there’s a lot of overlap between fetish communities and OF

  • @GaMEChld
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    255 hours ago

    Know your worth and know where you are valued.

    This can sound really deep, but it works for shallow too. I’m sorry girl, but the whore market is saturated and very competitive.

  • @Kyrgizion
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    Damn I remember this post from when I was on 4chan still. OP did provide links and his story was 100% true. The girl wasn’t ugly, just kinda plain but almost every pic of her somehow exuded despair, and that was honestly offputting (except for the kind of creeps who get off on that I reckon).

  • AItoothbrush
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    7612 hours ago

    There are a lot of people whod appreciate her features so its surprising she didnt get any attention. Maybe anon made up the story and is actually into men?

    • stebo
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      269 hours ago

      Someone else in the comments said they were there and it’s actually real. Likely still into men though

    • @arin
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      3111 hours ago

      Nope anon is the girl trying to get your attention

  • @[email protected]
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    7212 hours ago

    Anon experiences empathy for once in their miserable life.
    One of the few legit greentexts. lol

  • Bobby Turkalino
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    This happened to a girl I knew that tried to make some money on onlyfans during Covid lockdown. Only lasted 4 months, even though she was pretty attractive. I think guys just assume that as a girl, you can simply post nudes online and make money, while it actually does require consistent effort, marketing skills, and a bit of luck.

    • @[email protected]
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      186 hours ago

      I know so many people trying to make it as streamers who cannot seem to understand that you have to do a lot of work to make anything catch on unless you are crazy lucky/extremely attractive. A regular person playing a game isn’t interesting for others and it takes energy for most to cultivate a following.

      • @[email protected]
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        32 hours ago

        My cousin dropped out of university after a few months, and wanted to be a pro gaming streamer instead.

        Oddly enough he never did achieve that, and now mostly sits around his parent’s house doing quite a lot of being depressed.

    • @[email protected]
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      146 hours ago

      There’s a bit on the Netflix Pornhub documentary from a camgirl. She notes that she does her own marketing, lighting, camera work, etc., and every once in a while, she masturbates on camera. It’s a real job with real effort.

      • @[email protected]
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        52 hours ago

        Yeah, you can see this for yourself if you have a VR headset and a couple of sites have VR cams set up.

        Mostly they forget they exist (although I’m grateful for the ones that don’t), so you get a kind of behind the scenes look at it all.

        The one thing that strikes me is their demeanour the instant they’re off the main cam. These girls are so fucking done with everything and everyone, and it’s not surprising most of them quit after a month or two. Most of them are probably getting a fraction of the money tipped, with a good chunk going to the handlers (a lot of pretend typing going on, and they get directed by the person at the keyboard) and room rent (much of it seems to be in the same handful of buildings somewhere in St Petersburg). Many of them are on multiple sites at once, with phone apps on the go as well.

        It’s a real business.

      • @MataVatnik
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        Managed my friends only fans for a bit, we got her account to top 4.5%. She brought in ~$1.5K on a good month. One time we got up to $2K. This is with her having done porn with a few big studios and having a decent amount of followers on Twitter. There is no Discovery feature or feed on OF, you have to direct them there through a direct link. Had to keep a consistent production schedule, deal with inquires from patrons. Successfully running and only fans is like running a business, people don’t simply give you money.

          • @[email protected]
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            -63 hours ago

            Yeah, people think it’s easy to defraud Social Security. It’s hard pretending that I was born over 150 years ago.

            Shit, all the work I had to maintain that fraud. Fuck me, it was tough.

    • [email protected]
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      Frankly, I’m glad she was spared the trouble. I can’t imagine they’d be able to offer words of encouragement without seeming intensely parasocial. A generic “you’re hot” wouldn’t have amounted to much. It doesn’t seem like there’s a correct answer, besides finding her irl, flashing her unlocked onlyfans, and begging for her socks

  • @shalafi
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    plain, no curves, small tits, goth

    Can a brother get a link?